Tuesday, May 22, 2018

12 Years of Us

We celebrated 12 years of marriage on Saturday, May 19...TWELVE years! Sometimes it's hard to believe it's only been 12 years because of all we have seen, done and experienced together. Living in Logan with no kids, doing study abroad, having only one kid in Connecticut...that feels like a different life! But, it wasn't. That's where we started and our life has just unfolded beautifully, in my eyes. That one kid in Connecticut turned into two, those two kids in Connecticut came with us to Texas and the third joined us here. It's hard to believe that almost half our marriage has been in Texas but we have learned and grown so much since we've been here! Who knew we were cut out for days of road tripping, scorpions falling from the ceiling, fire ants or "Feels like 120* F" summers?! Or an additional 5 years of higher education?? Those are things I would have never guessed I would be ok with! And so much of our joy here has been because of the guy right by my side who just makes everything better with his positivity, hard work, willingness to kill any bug and an uncanny ability to drive multiple hours in a row with no help from yours truly.

 Man, I'm lucky that I've been married to this guy for 12 years and even luckier that he was my first love 17 years ago! We have come so far and have so far to go and I am excited to see where we head. I love him, I love us, I love our story.

Our anniversary started by waking up bright and early to watch the royal wedding live! Prince Harry and Meghan Marckle were getting married and we knew we wanted to watch after having fun watching Prince William and Kate Middleton's wedding live back in 2011. We are not British royalty obsessed or anything, but it's hard not to be intrigued by it all and we love Meghan Marckle in Suits, so that made it even better!
It was a beautiful service and made for a fun morning!

After a fun morning we did typical Saturday chores and relaxing before heading out on our date that Brian planned at 4pm. He always plans the best dates and this one did not disappoint! 
We headed to The Domain in North Austin and he took me to the Kendra Scott store to pick out a piece of jewelry. Kendra Scott is a home grown Austin based jewelry designer and her stuff is pretty popular and I have a pair of earrings of hers that I love too. I picked out a simple silver necklace that I love and I love Brian for taking me there, it was so fun!

For dinner we headed downtown to...
 Russian House!
We have talked about going here the whole time we've lived here and have never pulled the trigger. Brian finally made a reservation and I was excited to experience it. Well, it completely exceeded ALL expectations! This is a legit Russian restaurant. Every employee was Russian and the place was decorated with knick-knacks and photos and table cloths straight from Mother Russia. It. Was. Amazing. 
We seriously felt like we were back in Tanya's apartment in St. Petersburg and it was so fun to reminisce about that time 11 years ago. We talked about how we are so glad we had that experience before having kids and it made me itchy to go on an over seas trip. I know it will happen and I can't wait to see where we go! 
We shared a bowl of delicious borscht and then our main dishes (speaking of dishes,they didn't match and it was so charming and perfect) were good, too. Brian got cabbage rolls  (with a HUGE pile of sour cream) and I got the strogonoff and they were both perfectly Russian. The food over there is not to die for and it's one reason we had never gone because the food never sticks out as sounding super good, but the mediocre (fabulous for Russian standards) food was totally worth it and the experience was just spot on and so fun! We're kinda sad we didn't go sooner just so we could go back with some friends and experience it's authenticity with more people. 
We both posed as Russians would at dinner, just so you could get a sense of how authentic it all felt. 
We both got crepes with sweetened condensed milk to finish off the meal and they were definitely pre-made and not reheated which was kind of a bummer because we got those babies on the corner of the street multiple times a week when we lived there and so that was a bit of a let down.
BUT we didn't care. It was so much fun!

After our delightful dinner we walked over to the Moody Theater! I was surprised and so excited because I have always heard about it and have walked past it several times, but never been. Brian has seen Ryan Adams there and all the ACL Live concerts are filmed there to broadcast on PBS, but I had never had the chance. 
Earlier in the week he had sent me a video of Kat Edmonson singing in an NPR Tiny Desk Concert and I briefly listened and said I liked her. Well, she was the artist we got to see and she was PHENOMENAL! Like blew us away with her amazing voice and songs. We listened to her all the way home and have since. If you want to try her out, look up her song Lucky and give her a listen, you won't regret it!
The concert went until 11 p.m. and it was just so much fun to have a late date and come home to a clean house and kids in bed. I am so glad Brian is in charge of planning dates every so often because he always does the best job! What a perfect way to celebrate our last anniversary in Austin.

Monday, May 21, 2018

Mother's Day

Mother's Day is one of my most very favorite days of the year! Brian and the kids always do a good job and this year was no exception.  I woke up to darling kids singing a made up Happy Mother's Day song to me with their dad and having a delicious breakfast made with help from all. We enjoyed a relaxing morning with all the fun cards and gifts...definitely my favorite part!



Thad has been way into this drawing channel on YouTube and surprised me with this one. I love it!




 We don't have church until one and I thought we were going to be late, but we all got ready on time, took some pictures and got a bench at church! I DO NOT like sitting on the chairs at church and it's rare, but they were all so kind to make sure it didn't happen on Mother's Day!
I love these three with all of my heart and I am so blessed to spend all of my Mother's Days with them.
And even though it looks like Wes is not interested at all in being a part of our family, I assure you he is and is the best ginger headed middle child there has ever been!
 Here's some proof-


Oh, Wesley boy, I am so lucky to be your mama! Your excitement for life is contagious and I'm so glad I get to catch it every day. Thank you for loving me like you do.

This little gal gives me a run for my money, but I couldn't ask for a better pal to take the dishes out with, comb my hair with, run to the store with or snuggle with. She is everything (and more) that I thought a little girl would be!

And last, but certainly not least, Mr. Thad. This kid holds my heart. We can get under each other's skin because we are both so stubborn, but our likeness also bonds us together. I love him and his kind heart and sense of humor. It makes me sad to see him get so excited about big kids stuff (like getting his own email address last week), but Thad as a big kid is SO MUCH FUN! I love you, Thaddeus.

Mother's Day at church is always a great when the women get to gather and the men take over, it means so much to all of us! When we got home the boys weren't in much of a rush to get dinner going...
And Brian caught them taking their time! Haha!

The rest of the evening was spent getting waited on hand and foot, chilling with my people and calling the moms that mean the most to us. 
 It was a really good day!

Monday, May 14, 2018

A Goodbye Party to Remember

We will no longer live in Texas in four short weeks. That is really hard to believe when I say it (or write it) out loud. I know it's coming, we've bought a house for heaven's sake, but it's really hard to believe that it is coming. The boys only have 10 days left of school! How?! How is it all happening?! I knew all year this would come and here it all is...happening. 
Luckily I have the best friends a girl could ask for and they threw us a goodbye party to remember! Even though we still have four weeks left, it was the perfect weekend to have this party because May gets REALLY crazy towards the end of the month and I wasn't super emotional thinking about how it was going to be the last time I was going to see everyone. Kristen and Abby teamed up, which is really great because they are both fabulous hosts, and gave our family a really special night that begins our end in Texas.
 These two ladies have been a major part of my life here in Texas and I don't really know that I would love Texas as much as I do without them! I am so grateful for their friendship and willingness to share so much of their love and kindness with me and my family.

So many good friends came out to show their love and wish us well with our move. Most were from church, but we had several from school and neighborhood, too-
Kristen.Penny.Me.Jamie.Stacey.Alysha.Amber

Ms. Sayegh (Liana) was so nice to come with her cute fiance! She has by far been our favorite teacher at COE and we will miss seeing her around. She is getting married to a great guy this summer and we're so grateful for her and her wonderful teaching and friendship. Thad was lucky to be in her first First Grade class!

 Ralf.Brian.John
Three of the best Rock Shelfers there ever were!
This was the first time we had seen Ralf since Liz's memorial and it was so great to give him a big hug and get caught up with him and his amazing family. We sure love the Pattersons.
Olivia.Wes
Jamie told me that on the way over Olivia started crying because she didn't realize Wesley was moving...poor girl! She and Wes are both high energy, smart and fun and we have been so lucky to have her (and her mom and little bro Max) in our circle at church, preschool and COE.

Dax.Crockett.Thad.Houston
These cute boys ran around most of the night together and I couldn't have hoped for anything better!

The Hatches and The Monsens
We have gotten to be such good friends with the Hatches over the past 2 years and I just wish it would have been sooner! Chris and Audrey are so generous and kind and have some awesome kids to boot! Luckily we will be friends forever and see them not just in Utah or Texas when we visit, but hopefully a vacation to Disneyland and/or Chicago will happen in our future.

Crockett and Thad
Crockett and his mom, Helen, have been so much fun to get to know through clubs at COE over the past four years! Helen was in charge of Math Pentathlon Thad's Kindergarten year and started Science Society at COE, was the Destination Imagination coach for Thad's team this year and has just been such an awesome advocate for STEM at COE. I am so grateful I have gotten to rub shoulders with her, Crockett and her sweet mom, Ms. Judy. We will miss them!
Ms. Judy.Helen.Me

John and Sevi
Two of our very favorite people.

Michael was sweet to come to our party even though he had knee surgery on Tuesday! He didn't stay the whole time, but it meant a lot that he made his first outing for us. We heart the Dukes!


Anna created the CUTEST table for our farewell gift to be signed at. I am so grateful they thought of something for us to take with us to remember our time in Texas and this awesome party forever.




Here are my cute neighbors sitting together and sweet Jocelyn (our Relief Society President) getting to know them. She has been such a great example to me of leadership and love.


Chatting with the Ausmans

Best of friends!
My heart aches when I think about these girls not growing up together, but I just have to remember how happy I am that they have had each other the past 3 years and that our friendship with the Cochran's will last forever.

Lauren.Hannah.Roxanne.Eve.Sevi

The love Eve has for Kristen and Kristen for Eve shines through perfectly in this picture! Kristen has always loved my little girl and Eve gets so excited to see her and be with her. I love their little relationship so much!

And the Duke boys.
We sure love them too! They have been shining examples of all the good things to my boys over the past 5 years. They have grown up so much since we moved here and my only hope is that my boys follow in their footsteps. Greatness breeds greatness, the Dukes are proof!

Brady.Michael.Jason

 Cute mamas, Becky and Shelly hanging with their cuties by the swings.

Not sure what is happening here, but I love Eve's animation while talking to Ms. Abby.

Of course Audrey is the best and brought her Star Wars bubble machine and it was huge hit! She knows how to make anything more fun!

 Eve and her have a pretty special relationship too and I love it!

 Alisha.Me.Anna
I have so many awesome friends that start with the letter 'A' and these two beauties are two of those amazing gals! Alisha and I have never been in the same ward, but luckily she and Kristen have always stayed good friends and then Wes and Coco have done lots of preschool and soccer together so that solidified our friendship long ago. She has five darling children and I'll miss her tons! Anna has lived 3 houses down the past few years and we will deeply miss having her, Dax and Mila so close. She has been such an amazing example of hard work and dedication to her home and family while being a single mom. She is another forever friend I am so grateful to have.
Eve got hurt several times throughout the night, but loves from mom (and sympathy from MaryAnn) seemed to do the trick.


Me.Shelly.Brian.Nick.Jim.Shauri.Ian
Nick and Brian team teach seminary and he and Shelly have been such fun friends to have while we've lived her. Shelly served as the Primary president for a long time and Nick in scouts so we have loved rubbing shoulders with them and their cute kids. Jim and Shauri are one of a kind and we love them and their fun kids, too! Jim is not a member, but he supports and loves his family and all of us ward members without hesitation. I visit taught Shauri with Katie for a few years and then Shauri and I served in the Relief Society presidency together and I will forever love and admire her for her dedication and love for the gospel and her "out of the ordinary" family. I love that she shows we all fit in no matter what our family circumstances are.  
Nick.Jim.Bishop Bjarnason
Good guys surrounding the good food!

All the love for this wonderful lady.

Lots of people came that were not pictured and we are so grateful for their love and support of our family, we love them all so much. Leaving Texas wouldn't be so hard if it wasn't for all the people. I love the weather and our neighborhood and being a Texan, but none of that would matter if the people were terrible. And they're definitely not. I love all these people!
Big changes are coming our way and I'm so grateful to Kristen and Abby for beginning our end here in Texas with a bang!
~TEXAS FOREVER~